The Small Things……

  
When people want to show that they care about another person you typically see them display huge (costly) acts of kindness.  If a man wants to marry a woman he buys her the most expensive ring.  If a woman wants to get a man’s attention she might spend a lot of money on her attire or buy him an extravagant gift.  The point is, why are the small things overlooked.  In any relationship I believe it’s best to always do the small things to let someone know that you care and that you’re thinking about them.  Say someone you care about has a favorite snack or treat.  Surprise them with that item on a random day.  Then sit back and watch the smile on their face.  If you live with your partner, then do something around the house. Maybe a chore that you know they hate to do, like the dishes.  There are many different ways to show someone that you care but nothing is more special than just showing them your undivided attention.  When they come home from a long day of work just simply ask them, “How was your day?”.  That question alone is so powerful that it will keep any relationship strong.  Never forget about all the small thing you can do for someone to show them you care.  Because when the flame starts to die and the chemical reaction in your brain begins to go away all you have left is the foundation and principles that you built your relationship on.  And if you forget then you will loose that relationship forever.  So I encourage whoever reads this, that sometime today, you do a small gesture for the person you care about.  Let them know that you are there and that you love them!

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